Wednesday, December 17, 2008
The wait ends...for now...
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View Aaren's AlbumWill carry on uploading when i have the time...still have hundreds and hundreds more!
Friday, December 05, 2008
Mothers
I've always heard that giving birth is the most difficult part of having a child...
i am sure all mothers will agree that the statement isnt true at all...
Nothing is more difficult as raising a child... because when u give birth you are in pain and you know you willbe able to withstand it somehow...
whereas once a child is born, you are fully responsible for him... since he cant speak, you have to think of every possibility that could make him cry and then one by one eliminate them.It isnt the sleepless nights that tires a mother rather its the helplessness she feels when her baby cries and she doesnt know whats wrong with him...
I would like to thank my mother for she has endured and gone thru loads of pains to raise me , infact all 3 of us.She who is unable to take pain(even afraid of jabs) has been thru 3 labours... Thank you mother for caring for me all these years. Its now that i am a mother myself that i truly understand your worth.
I love you mummy!
Aaren turns 7 weeks old
My parents visited us here in Sweden Karlskrona...the 3 weeks just flew by and it was time for them to leave very soon too.Alvin and i really miss them. The house seems so empty and quiet without them...
But the 3 weeks were great while they lasted. I got to spend quality time with my parents and they got loads of time with their grandson.It was awesome to seem how well they bonded with each other. I am sure Aaren misses his Nani, Nana and Maasi as much as they miss him.
Dad celebrated his 52nd Birthday with us :) Emily and her hubby were so sweet, they even gave him a nice present! After a long one year, i baked again. i baked dad a chocolate cake and made him some tiramisu...
Aaren celebrated his 1st month with them. His nani made Sevaiyyan and pooris along wiht the other gooodies...Emily his godma, even baked him a colourful fruity and delicious cake! yummy
Alvin for once seemed to be more relaxed when they were around... and we both learnt some tips and tricks on how to handle our newborn.I will miss those days and nights we spent talking. I will miss how Aaren got his oil massages from his Nani, though i continue to do so daily, nothing beats her touch.I will miss the head oil massages i got from Daddy and mummy. The squabbles and laughter i shared with chandini... Btw Chandini really surprised me.She is so pro at handling Aaren...from feeding him to lullabying him, she has mastered it all! :)
I can only miss those days and wait eagerly for July 08 when i will be able to fly back and see them once again...Aaren will then be 8 months old then:)